The Preciousness of Friends and Family

In a busy and demanding world full of obligations and opportunities, we sometimes lose track of our primary relationships, thinking they will tend to themselves. 

We may have the best intentions when we think about how nice it would be to surprise our partner or family member with a gift. Yet somehow, life gets in the way. We may think that our love is strong enough to survive without attention. Yet even mature trees need water and care if they are to thrive.



One of the best ways to nourish a relationship is through communication. If you feel that a distance has grown between you and your partner or family, you may be able to bridge the gap by sharing how you feel. Do your best to avoid blame and regret. Focus instead on the positive, which is the fact that you want to grow closer together. 

Sometimes, just acknowledging that there is distance between you has the effect of bringing the relationship into balance. In other cases, more intense effort and attention may be required. You may want to set aside time to talk and come up with solutions together. . 

Express faith and confidence in each other, and enjoy the slow dance of intimacy that can resume between you.