Friday, August 30, 2013

5 Key Habits of Successful People You Need To Emulate




Though everyone's definition of success is different, it is
fairly easy to place that label on the person with the broad
grin on their face who seems to have it all figured out.
Regardless of what you hope to become successful with, there
are ways to move towards your goals and, eventually, conquer
them.

1. Have an End in Mind

Before you can accomplish a goal, you need to figure out
what that goal is. By clearly defining a goal to yourself,
you put yourself into a "no compromises" position. Internal
pressure and excitement of the end result motivate you to
move forward with your project, rather than stopping half
way through.

That being said, it is a good idea to ensure that the goal
is attainable. If you are aiming high, try breaking it down
into smaller, bite-sized chunks. This helps you feel you are
moving forward with the project, rather than feeling as
though it will never get finished.

2. Have a Schedule

Many people feel that there's not enough hours in a day to
allow them to finish all the tasks. The best way around is
to become particular about how you spend your time. If you
have work that needs to be done, set aside a certain amount
of time for you to work on it. This helps you to avoid the
pitfalls of excuses like "I will finish it after this",
which evolves into "I do not have time today. Maybe I will
do it tomorrow".


3. Be Persistent

Small failures are inevitable in any endeavor. By taking
failures positively, rather than negatively, you have a
higher chance of attaining success.

When you do fail, do not ignore it and push that aspect of
whatever you are working on to the back burner. Attacking it
head-on is the only way to overcome adversity, and this is
best accomplished by simply trying again.

4. Be Positive

Negativity has rarely impacted a project positively. By
finding the silver lining to any problems that may arise and
approaching them with positivity, you will find it far
easier to combat them. As well, looking at your endeavor in
a positive light in general will help you accomplish what
you like. Knowing the good that could result from what you
are working on can help you feel more motivated.

5. Communicate and Have a Team

Everyone needs help or a positive boost at some point, and
having a team of cheerleaders, well-wishers, or helpers can
provide this. Communicating effectively to each team member
ensures different aspects will be taken care of as you
planned, reducing mistakes and failure rates. A small group
of people you can lean on and bounce ideas off of can lend
creativity and stability to your work.

Having all these 5 key habits, keeping it and putting it
into practice to be successful in life. Then you will be
sure to be able to combat all the challenges that life
throws at you.





"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou

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Monday, August 5, 2013

Laughter is like a Hurricane





    Laughter... is like a hurricane: once it reaches a certain point, it becomes self-feeding, self-supporting. You laugh not because the jokes are funny but because your own condition is funny.

Stephen King

A note from Cynthia...

Laughter. It's a smile, gone supernova.

Some say that humans are the only species on the planet that laugh. Whether that's strictly true, I'm not sure (have you ever seen a bonobo being tickled?), but laughter is certainly a core piece of what makes us human.

It's kind of a hard thing to define, isn't it? And I think-no, strike that. I feel like it's also part of our divine nature, too. Not just everyday "ha-ha" good humor, but also the kind of laughter King is talking about in the quote today. The kind Robert Frost is talking about with his quote "If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane." That kind of laughter seems to come from a place beyond the ego, and it somehow allows us to let go of struggle and really laugh at ourselves.

Do you remember your last stomach-clenching-tear-jerking-snot-producing laugh?

With hugs, smiles, and lots of laughter too,

Cynthia


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"People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou

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